If you want to ruin every relationship in your entire life, play fair. Don’t play fair. Be the friend you wish others were to you instead of being a victim:
In everything, therefore, treat people the same way you want them to treat you, for this is the Law of the Prophets (Matthew 7:12 NASB.)
In order to have a friend, you have to be a friend. Keep love and truth in your relationships, but drop your sword.
Love your enemies:
If you love only someone who loves you, will God praise you for that? Even sinners love people who love them. If you are kind only to someone who is kind to you, will God be pleased with you for that? Even sinners are kind to people who are kind to them. If you lend money only to someone you think will pay you back, will God be pleased with you for that? Even sinners lend to sinners because they think they will get it all back. But love your enemies and be good to them. Lend without expecting to be paid back. Then you will get a great reward, and will be the true children of God in heaven. He is good even to people who are unthankful and cruel (Luke 6:32-35 CEV.)
Stop keeping score, but rather run up the score:
Don’t let evil conquer you, but rather conquer evil by doing good (Romans 12:21 NLT.)
Act like a 5 yr. old. Live for I’m okay, you’re okay. You were created to reflect God’s image, not some fantasy of your own imagination. It is essential to being used by God:
How terrible for you, teachers of the law and Pharisees! You pretenders! You clean the outside of the cup and dish. But on the inside you are full of greed. You only want to satisfy yourselves. Blind Pharisee! First clean the inside of the cup and dish. Then the outside will also be clean (Matthew 23:25, 26 NIRV.)
Be messy. Move from survival to surrender:
If you cling to your life, you will lose it; but if you give up your life for me, you will find it (Matthew 10:39 NLT.)
Become a powerful tool for God with an available, accessible, and responsible heart:
If you keep yourself pure, you will be a special utensil for honorable use. Your life will be ready for the Master to use you for every good work (2 Timothy 2:21 NLT.)
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Music
Without You – David Guetta feat. Usher
We Shine – Fee
Here for You – Chris Tomlin
One Thing Remains – Jesus Culture
Lord, I Need You – Chris Tomlin
God is Able – Hillsong Live